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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

10 Things You Should Be Looking for In a Boyfriend.

You’re probably reading this either because you’re looking for a new boyfriend (hoping you’ll finally meet someone deserving of you) or because you haven’t gotten one before. When you have a boyfriend, you have the chance to buy him men’s colognes on Christmas, give him tickets to his favorite game on his birthday, bring him as your official date on events and parties, or maybe just be excited and happy all the time because you finally have a decent one.



But before you decide to find Mr. Right, there should be a number of qualities you should be looking for in a boyfriend. Write down these 10 qualities and see if you can find him.

1. He should support whatever your likes are. He doesn’t condemn the things that make you happy and at the same time, he doesn’t embarrass you in front of your friends or in public.

2. He likes spending time with your family and really makes an effort to be with them. A brunch over the weekend or maybe fly to your parent’s house to meet them the first time is a man’s quality you should be looking for. At the same time, you reciprocate by visiting his family and they make an effort to get to know you better.

3. He’s making an effort to improve his hygiene. Ever got into a man’s wormhole? That’s one of the scariest places on earth. But when a guy starts to clean up his room, improve his grooming, even wear one of the most popular men’s colognes like Emporio He Giorgio Armani fragrance, he’s really making an effort. Buy him some colognes from Beauty Encounter when you’re in a relationship already, not when both of you are still in the getting-to-know-each-other phase.

4. You should both have the same outlook in the future. He should have an ambition and a workable career that can accommodate you in his world. Furthermore, if you’re looking for someone who’s husband material, he should open himself up to having his own family someday.

5. It is essential that you have the same faith, if not religion (or lack of it). Politics and religion are just some of the endless topics that raise great debates. To maintain a harmonious relationship, you and your prospective boyfriend must have the same views on these topics.

6. He doesn’t cheat on you and on his previous relationships. What makes you think you can change him into a better person? Guys have reputations so make sure you do your background check.

7. He loves everything about you, even those little things you don’t like about yourself. Those extra flabs on your tummy don’t matter to him because he doesn’t recognize your flaws.

8. He makes you laugh, even if having a sense of humor doesn’t come naturally to him. Girls are easy to please. Making you laugh should be an easy task and if he can’t give that to you, maybe you start looking for someone else. No one likes drama (or horror) all the time.

9. If age shouldn’t matter, height shouldn’t either. His self confidence doesn’t come tumbling down when he’s around you just because you’re a few inches taller.

10. He should be mature enough to talk about deep thoughts and serious discussion and at the same time, playful enough to talk about nonsense stuff with you. You want a boyfriend who’s not only a lover but more importantly, a friend.

Good luck finding Mr. Right and remember: don’t settle for anything less.

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20 comments:

  1. When a good thing comes along you will know it. No one should ever settle!

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  2. I am passed the days of looking for a boyfriend, but I think hubbys can be reminded of a few of these things too.

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  3. I'm taller then my boyfriend and #9 is something I had to get over and I'm so glad I did! I think my #11 is make sure he can cook! :)

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  4. This is a great list,definitely things you should be looking for.

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  5. Great list :) I should send this to some of my friends! haha

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  6. Don't settle, but I also think sometimes people expect the opposite sex to be somewhat magazine quality or God like in a way. There is no perfect person, so you will have to accept some flaws, but regardless the person show love you for you.

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  7. Definitely #8. My husband's humor is what made me fall in love with him.

    Michelle F.

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  8. Great points. I think it's also essential to see how he treats other people, like his friends and family members. To me, this is the ultimate judge of character.

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  9. I think my wife has the whole package! hahaha I agree allot of the attributes you suggest i noticed is why some friends are getting divorced.

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  10. Love the comment above, what a good husband! I am so glad I am not in the dating world, my husband has everything and then some that I would ever want, I am deeply blessed!

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  11. All great points and communication is the key to all relationships. If you feel comfortable and do talk about everything then the relationship usually blossoms.

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  12. I luckily haven't had to look for a boyfriend in some time but my husband fits these criteria perfectly. (most of the time) Lol! Great list & very true.

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  13. Nice list! Compromise, honesty, and communication keep things rolling.

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  14. Love your list, I'm married but I was available, your list would be the perfect way to find out if that person is a good fit or not!

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  15. GREAT post! I absolutely loved reading this! Thanks so much for sharing your wonderful thoughts! xo xo

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  16. SO many good tips here, but too bad we (we being so many of us) don't listen to these things until it's too late and we're ill-affected because we did not. Thanks for sharing the list!

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  17. Great list! So glad my hubby meets most of these most of the time. Maybe he needs to be reminded every now and then!

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  18. I see my husband when I read your list. I realize how lucky I am I found my perfect half, that's been so awesome to put up with all my bad moments for 13 years.

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  19. Very compelling list, and I totally agree that it is essential for a lasting relationship to have pretty much the same viewpoint on religion and politics. Though I also believe that someone's political position can say a lot about their ethics, which I guess is why I have also stayed within the pool of people who have the same political viewpoints as I do.

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  20. good post. those who are looking for BF will get inspired with this tips. im not sure my husband meets all the requirements hahaha,

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